Links to Further Learning

Learn About Abuse

Personal Safety Plan

  • Personal Safety Plan.pdf
  • Note: Each safety plan is unique and complex and leaving your relationship can lead to increased risk
  • Please contact Community Based Victim Services (250-832-0005) or the Transition House (250-832-9616) for further assistance with your personal safety plan

Power and Control Wheel

  • The Power & Control Wheel is a simple, powerful tool to understand the dynamics of intimate partner violence

Equality Wheel

  • The opposite of power and control, the Equality Wheel is a visual representation of a healthy, non-abusive relationship

Cycle of Violence

  • The Cycle of Violence and/or Cycle of Abuse explains cyclical (or repeating) nature of intimate partner violence
  • There are three phases of the cycle of violence including tension building, “acute battering” (abusive), and honeymoon phases
  • Over time the tension building and honeymoon phases usually become shorter and the abuse increases (either in frequency, severity, or both)
  • The cycle works to keep people in abusive relationships by controlling them

Types of Violence and Abuse from the Ending Violence Association of BC

Are You Being Abused from the Ministry for Public Safety Solicitor General

Live Safe, End Abuse from Legal Services Society

  • What abuse is, who can help, how to protect yourself, how the law can protect you
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How to Help Someone Experiencing Abuse

Is Someone You Know Being Abused from the Ministry for Public Safety Solicitor General

What Bystanders Can Do from Ending Violence Asociation of BC


Protecting Yourself and Your Children

Mothers Leaving Abusive Partners from Legal Services Society

  • About abuse, where to get help, family law protection
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For Your Protection: Peace Bonds and Family-Law Protection Orders from Legal Services Society

  • Information for people in relationships who need protection from violence or the threat of violence
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